Jawab :Apabila kita ini sudah melakukan yang terbaik tetapi belum mendapatkan atau diberi kemudahan oleh Yang Maha Pemberi, maka berarti ada sesuatu yang salah pada diri kita.
Ada orang yang melindungi prinsipnya yang diyakini salah, dan reportnya prinsip tersebut diyakini benar.
Hal-hal yang bisa menunda pencapaian kesejahteraan dan kebahagian kita adalah :
Berharap tidak kepada Yang Maha Memberi
Demikian besar-kah rasa takut Anda akan tidak adanya riski,
sehingga Anda mengalihkan harapan akan rizki Anda
dari Tuhan – kepada orang-orang bengkok
yang saat ini berkuasa atas jumlah biaya hidup Anda?
Janganlah Anda mencoba menukar Tuhan
dengan biaya hidup yang sebetulnya masih sangat kecil itu.
Sebetulnya, kepada siapa kah Anda berharap?
Pribadi yang sulit di Bantu.
Apabila kita ingin kaya maka perkayalah banyak orang.
Apabila kita ingin menjadi pribadi yang mudah dibantu
Maka Permudahlah banyak orang.
Alam mengundang kita untuk menjadi pribadi-pribadi bernilai
yang kehadirannya mendatangkan kebaikan bagi lingkungannya.
Bila ada janji-janji dari balik langit mengenai kekhususan
yang akan diberikan kepada mereka yang mudah memberi,
maka pasti ada harapan di balik awan,
agar kita mengupayakan diri kita menjadi pribadi-pribadi yang mampu memberi.
In his excellent book, On Becoming a Person, Dr. Carl Rogers spelled out some of the characteristics of the new, powerful person who is emerging in our culture today...and the vital, different set of values he both maintains and lives. "I stressed," he writes, "his hatred of phoniness, his opposition to all rigidly structured institutions, his desire for intimacy, closeness and community, his willingness to live by new and relatively moral and ethical standards, his searching quality, his openness to his own and others' feelings, his spontaneity, his activism and his determination to translate his ideals into reality. I am talking," he wrote, "about a relatively small number of people. But I believe that these people constitute the change agents of the future. When some part of a culture is decayed at the core, a small group with new views, new convictions, and a willingness to live in new ways, is a ferment that cannot be stopped."
Let's take a look at that new person emerging in our culture and see if you and I qualify.
First - his hatred of phoniness. Our new powerful person sees through facades and tinsel...outmoded and ridiculous customs and beliefs. Free of the tyranny of things and the opinions of others, he and his family...she and her family...live in a kind of solid serenity where true values count; where the verities, things like truth and justice, the family and work, take on real meaning. It is in the avoidance of phoniness that real freedom may be found...and one can drop off the rat race with a great sigh of relief. There are no inner circles to which these people need apply for membership; they are the centers of their own circles.
This person is opposed to all rigidly structured, closed institutions. Such institutions are saying, by the fact that they are rigidly structured and closed, "We have the answers...we need look no further...this is it." The new, powerful person knows that at this early stage of our development, such thinking is infantile. We do not have all the answers...about anything. And just as the maturing person is in a stage of growth, of becoming - so is a vital institution. It uses what it has and what it knows as springboards into the future...and assiduously avoids becoming closed and rigidly structured. A good and viable institution, like a self-actualizing person, is always in a state of growth..of becoming.
He has a desire for intimacy...closeness and community, and a willingness to live by new and relatively moral and ethical standards. This person has a searching quality and an openness to his own and others' feelings. He is spontaneous, unafraid of what others will say of his enthusiasms and ideas...and is determined to translate his ideas and ideals into reality.
Of course these people must constitute a relatively small number of people...a true inner circle, the most important and influential club of human beings on earth. The qualifications for membership are tough: To meet them takes work, thought and study...a willingness to find oneself and be oneself. But the perquisites of membership are great indeed! One of them is freedom...another is joy.
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Getting started in modeling is not based on luck, but on hard work and dedication! Modeling agencies do have scouts that travel around and seek out potential models, but you could be waiting forever to be found by one. You must take the steps to get started! Some basic ideas that you should consider when planning your entry into the modeling industry. It is not an all inclusive guide, but it should get you started down the right path. If you are under 18 years old, then seek the help of your parents. They will have to represent you when contacting agencies, etc...
If you want to be a model, then you should feel comfortable looking like a model. Modeling is more than sitting in front of camera and smiling. Modeling is how you carry yourself around the public (and potential employers). Make it a point to dress nice for all occasions (don't wear baggy clothing, baseball caps, sweat pants, or anything else that might look trashy) and, if female, apply your make-up to today's fashion standards. If you are the least bit uncertain about how to dress nicely, or how to apply make-up correctly, you might want to consider a fashion consultant, make-up artist, or modeling school who can teach you. The more often you dress nice and fashionably, the more comfortable you'll feel. This comfort, coupled with experience and training, will build confidence! This confidence with show through during photo shoots, meetings with modeling agencies, and possible employers. Most importantly, always be friendly and polite (and not conceited). This will carry you far.
TIPS
Online Profile and Portfolio.
You can create a website that has your resume, profile, and protfolio gallery. This make it easy for you to distribute this information quickly and inexpensively. Also, if your website is well-optimized and promoted, you will receive traffic to it without doing much work. The more traffic you get, the higher your chance of finding a client willing to hire your services.
A super Monday morning to you all !!!
Semoga pagi yang indah ini mendapati Anda sedang bekerja dengan kesungguhan yang belum pernah Anda lihat mewarnai upaya Anda sebelumnya.
Seperti Anda, seorang atlet kelas dunia tidak bekerja keras melatih dirinya untuk mengalahkan orang lain, dia bekerja keras untuk mencapai kualitas-kualitas yang belum pernah dicapainya sebelumnya.
Maka, tetaplah bekerja keras dengan fokus pada peningkatan kualitas diri Anda sendiri. Capailah kelas-kelas pemenang.
Karena, yang paling penting dalam olimpiade kehidupan ini - bukanlah meraih kemenangan, tetapi keikut-sertaan dalam kehidupan dengan kualitas seorang pemenang.
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